Saturday, March 21, 2015

Is it possible to be plus size and healthy ?



Recently I had my annual check up and my doctor  told me I was relatively healthy.  Twice a year I make sure to get my blood work done and also meet with a cardiologist . As a plus size women my heart  Aka the engine of the body  is to crucial to ignore . So making sure  it works  properly is of course important . I asked my doctor  is it possible to be plus size and healthy ? He told me Um No. I was like  but you just said I'm healthy . I wasn't going out and eat a pint of strawberry ice-cream , like my mind wanted to do BUT ! Relatively is the key word .He explained  in the long run your organs will start to break down .As an African American women I love having curves with a little extra meat  around the thigh and Donk area . I come from a southern background and hearty meals was every night . By medical standards I'm extremely over weight and yet I'm healthy . In the African American community hips butt and thighs are a part of the culture .  When the weight chart was designed it was not designed to include ethnicity and culture or social norms .  The most important thing in being healthy and plus size is to know your body . I am a big believer in your body talking . The body shows warning signs , people just ignore them . Listen to your body visit the doctor frequent and love your self . The more aware you are of what's going on the quicker you can make a change . I also make sure I don't overly indulge with any food that's fried , processed or has a lot of bad sugars.  Once I decided to pay attention as to what I put in my mouth I actually became healthier . I'm not saying I don't want to lose weight . I'm taking steps to be healthy not just "relatively "  
What ever body you have it's a temple and take care of it .

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Good Ole Faithful Maxi

Getting up and going to work can be such a task .  My life is so busy , I am grateful for my life but it can be overwhelming at times . School, work and being a mom to a  high energy 6 year old boy while maintaining a social life drains all of my energy.  Planning what I will wear is rare . On this Monday morning  with no clue on what to wear I went to good ole faithful Maxi dress .  I love Maxi dresses you can dress them up or down and in all seasons.  It is freezing in NY  so I would not have dared Rock my dress with  arms out . I put a olive green cropped jacket over my black maxi dress  put a belt on  with leggings because its like zero degrees (exaggeration) more like forty five same thing if you ask me  and some pumps for  height.     In these photos I'm giving Curves and Face and more Curves  in my Maxi dress Huney.








Monday, February 18, 2013

Be Your Biggest Motivator

SOMETIMES I FALL DEEP IN THOUGHT  

SOMETIMES I FEEL STUCK AND CONFUSED

 AND THEN I SMILE BECAUSE I LOVE LIFE . MY DEFINITION IS WHAT MATTERS .. I AM MY BIGGEST MOTIVATOR .. WHEN YOU CANT THINK OF YOUR GOODNESS LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SMILE AND I PROMISE THE EMOTIONS WILL FLOOD THROUGH OUT YOUR BODY .. YOU MAY CRY LAUGH SCREAM BUT WHEN YOUR DONE.   SMILE  AND THINK OF THE GOOD IN YOU ..GIVE YOUR SELF COMPLIMENTS AND  BECOME YOUR BIGGEST MOTIVATOR .
 I REFUSE TO ACCEPT OTHER PEOPLES IDEA'S OF HAPPINESS FOR ME AS IF THERE'S ONE SIZE FITS ALL  ..Kanye West

DON'T JUDGE ME BECAUSE MY CURVES ARE PLENTIFUL .
 

Monday, January 28, 2013

Im not going to complain Im going to make a change.

Hey guys hope all is well with you .

Today  I started a knew life style challenge.. healthy eating . This will be a challenge for me because my life seems to move to fast for meal planning, but I'm up for the challenge . My health at this time is not an issue but my body image has become uncomfortable . So Day 1. was  about coming up with an action plan to get back the body image that's adequate for me  . I decided to start to eat healthy and clean incorporating more organic fruits and veggies etc etc basically ..I stop eating garbage. Lets first just make something clear I will never be a skinny women , that's just not my body type . This is not just about weight loss this is about feeling my best .As you know when you feel your best you look your best . What started this knew way of life is when I started to feel foreign in my own body . I know it sounds weird , but come on now am I the only one who felt their back fat jiggle and said OH HELL NO I'M NOT USE TO THIS, I doubt it . So I am not going to complain I'm going make a change !! While of course remaining FABULOUS !!Lets see how this goes.
Driving home from the super market with about 30 bags in the back seat .
 
 

Friday, January 25, 2013

Plus size and prints

For so long I have been afraid of prints. Size 22 and floral or other prints scared the crap out of me . I felt  I would look like a floating object .I'm just saying .  But once i started to become more and more comfortable with my body i started to try knew things. So i took the leap and tried a floral  dress and Huney boo boo IT WAS ON !  This knew look was visually arresting too me .  Below you will find
links of some items I'm obsessed with .   So  try prints colors and what ever else you may be afraid of you never know you may look GORGEOUS HUNEY ..Yeassss




http://www.forever21.com/Product/Product.aspx?BR=plus&Category=faith_outerwear&ProductID=2040495974&VariantID=

 http://us.asos.com/ASOS-CURVE-Skater-Dress-in-Sweet-Floral/zatxv/?iid=2666942&cid=9577&Rf900=1465&sh=0&pge=1&pgesize=20&sort=-1&clr=Multi&mporgp=L0FTT1MtQ3VydmUvQVNPUy1DVVJWRS1Ta2F0ZXItRHJlc3MtaW4tU3dlZXQtRmxvcmFsL1Byb2Qv


  http://us.asos.com/ASOS-CURVE-Midi-Body-Conscious-Dress-in-Jewel-Flower-Print/zejw0/?iid=2723374&cid=9577&Rf900=1465&sh=0&pge=0&pgesize=20&sort=-1&clr=Multi&mporgp=L0FTT1MtQ3VydmUvQVNPUy1DVVJWRS1NaWRpLUJvZHljb24tRHJlc3MtaW4tSmV3ZWwtRmxvd2VyLVByaW50L1Byb2Qv